My SMU Experience: Expectations vs. Reality

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There is a lot less ramen than I expected…there’s still ramen, just a lot less.

My idea of what I thought college changed a lot based on what I saw and heard as I grew up.  I would say my first impressions of college would be the first time I saw Disney’s The Extremely Goofy Movie.  I figured I’d be heading out with my best friends, driving away from home, getting involved in a sport, and maybe even a fraternity.  In the movie, Goofy ends up following his son Max to college, and I hadn’t even ruled that out at the time.  I love mom and dad, but that is not an option anymore.  Please visit anytime, however!

Later I had learned from movies and tv to expect lots of parties in college, and crazy friends.  That was also inaccurate.  Those opportunities exist, but good friends keep you out of those scenarios, and rather, watch Netflix and make food until the late hours of the night.  A classy alternative.  Coming from a place with no professional sports teams and limited concert options, going to college in the Seattle was a huge eye opener for me.  Fellow social squad member, Lauren Diuco and I, are counting down the days till we can watch games at SafeCo Field again or see the recently crowned Sounders take over CenturyLink Field as the MLS Cup Champions.  I really didn’t consider these options until I arrived at Saint Martin’s.

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Lauren Diuco and I show our support of (King) Felix Hernandez at SafeCo Field

 
Until my teammate in high school signed to run track in college, I hadn’t seen collegiate athletics to be in my future, but I planned to make it a reality, and I did!  Another reality that came true in college stems from another Disney movie, Toy Story 3.  Mom took that one hard watching Andy go to college, and I always thought it was kind of ridiculous until it actually happened to me.  It is crazy hard to say goodbye to your parents, especially when you live far enough away that you’ll only see them a few times a year.  You learn how to stay close, and they love updates and pictures, so make sure you do that.

My family with me at Monroe Catholic High School the day I signed with Saint Martin’s

Reality definitely breaks expectations and that is such a great thing.  Lessons continue to be taken out of the classrooms, and you learn so much more than what you have on your class schedule.  You learn which stereotypes you can break about college students, and create your own experience here at Saint Martin’s.  However, I’d be surprised if you don’t accompany a late night of homework with ramen at some point in your four years…

 

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One thought on “My SMU Experience: Expectations vs. Reality

    leysters said:
    February 16, 2017 at 8:40 pm

    Thank you Andrew for sharing!!!!

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